Relationship

Every creation of God is related to some other creation in some way. Each fulfill some needs of the other. Humans are closely bonded together. Sometimes we do not realize the intensity of the relationship but it is there and strongly linked. Lets look at some key relationships and there impacts.

A mother is one person to whom any person is the most attached to. No matter how much time a person spends with her mother, it is the emotional connection that keeps the mother in top of the list. She is totally responsible for the grooming of her children. The basic household manners, respecting neighbors, caring about family. A child is a mirror of what the mother teaches her. A mother loves her children with all her heart and tries to protect them in all cases which she sense dangerous for them. The same grooming of mother reflects when a child grows and becomes an elder. A person is more socially involved if the moral etiquette are good.

Second to mother comes father, who is associated to a child more like a mentor and idol. Every child looks up to his/her father as the best man. I believe fathers are great for a person in setting up benchmarks. We learn from fathers how to deal with different situations good or bad. A father covers the needs of his family in the best way he can.

Brothers and Sisters are the helpers and teasers. Actually they are the ones with whom you can share your problems at any time and get the needed support from them. They are moral boosters. They are the ones with whom we tend to experiment stuff. I guess the term "unconditional support" is meant for siblings. It might not always mean they provide physical help but spiritual guidance and well wishing is also what can expect from siblings.

Grandfathers and grandmothers are there to make complains of parents (Just kidding). Grand parents provide their good blessings to grand children. Their experience, stories are always interesting and lessons to learn. A house with grand parents is considered to be blessed house.

Every person once crossing the age of puberty looks for a partner. Attracting opposite sex and looking for suitable partner is part of human nature. We tend to get closer to those people who we think are some way like us or who can interact with us easily. We are likely to get attached to those people with whom we feel sharing our thoughts and personal feelings easily. Such is the person who we decide to spend our life with. Getting married is an important human norm and is considered beneficial for both men and women. Marriage brings its own benefits to person. Not just we get to share ideas, bed and feelings but marriage gives a person confidence and sense of responsibility. Marriage is said to prevail the goodness of a person. 

Lastly friends are those with whom we feel the actual meaning of "freedom of speech" and "freedom of action". No matter how far we are, when we meet it feels like refreshing as always. Spending time out, sharing books or playing sports together or even spending night at friends place are all part of friendship. Friend is a very broad category which itself can contain family members, colleagues, class fellows, travelling partners, accommodation partners and a lot more. No matter how busy we get in our life there is always sometime that we spend with friends to regroup our self.

Well i may have missed some key relationships but the main idea here is to highlight the importance and necessity that any relationship has in our life and how they play their part in keeping the much needed balance. Hence respect these relationships and try to maintain them with the best of your capabilities.